why we gather / what we ask

We believe it takes effort, intentionality, and presence to make real connections—to encounter strangers, share rituals, and build community.

And we believe there are reasons these things feel so hard today.

• We are all meant to be in connection and community—with friends, with family, with each other.

• The modern world teaches us to shrink, to separate, to survive alone.

• We believe in a different physics —
 where aliveness grows by being shared, amplified, reflected around a table. 

• So we gather.


• We ground ourselves with shared rituals, small cathedrals built of questions and breath.
 We rebind what we have unraveled.

• Not because it is simple, or safe, but because gathering is sacred.

Making this works means co-creating a space designed for openness, connection, and just a little bit of courage.

Here’s what we ask of every guest:

• Come open. Arrive curious, kind, and willing to meet someone new.

• Connect 1:1. Our gatherings aren’t about mingling, flirting, or networking. They’re about meaningful individual connection.

• Be present. Put your phone away. The people here are the point.

• Honor your commitment. Show up on time. Stay the full time. Your presence matters.

• Take risks. Share something real. Go a little deeper than usual.

• Be authentic; no performance required. This isn’t about being interesting, impressive, or “on.” You’re not here to sell yourself—you’re here to be yourself.

• Be generous. If you feel a thread forming, don’t be afraid to keep pulling it. Offer to reconnect, trade contact info, or make an introduction.